I diagnose the self-betrayal pattern
for women who refuse to be the weak link
in their bloodline.
Take the Self-Betrayal Diagnostic
I lived all 10 patterns.
I wrote the memoir.
I built the exit system.
Therapy helped you understand why.
Understanding doesn't stop the pattern.
I diagnose which pattern.
You enforce the exit.
You're here because
- You've restarted the same project 6 times. €50,000 abandoned.
- You're exhausted. Haven't let anyone help in 3 years.
- You charge €200 for €4,000 work.
- You're still defending choices from 2019.
- You refuse to be the weak link in your bloodline.
If you recognised yourself — you're living one of these patterns.
If you don't exit this pattern
years lost to the same loop
abandoned projects, refused prices, avoided visibility
insomnia, chronic pain — your nervous system keeping score
the pattern passes to the next generation
The women before you survived worse with fewer choices.
Don't waste that inheritance
refusing to see one pattern.
You tried
Understood why. Didn't stop you.
47 unfinished. Pattern still active.
Their blueprint. Your body refused it.
Can't manifest out of a pattern you can't see.
5 years. The pattern doesn't wait.
They tried to fix you.
You don't need fixing.
You need to see the pattern.
Once you see it — you can't perform it.
Four doors
Each threshold leads somewhere different
The Diagnostic
Free · 10 minutesDiscover which self-betrayal pattern you're living.
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Enter TempleThe Named Woman
Memoir · 2026The evidence. I lived all 10 patterns before I mapped them.
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