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Philosophical essays on self-betrayal patterns, governance, sovereignty, and what it costs to stop performing.

Oracle writing for women who refuse the weak link.

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THE NAMED WOMAN: A Memoir About Ending Self-Betrayal

I published THE NAMED WOMAN on January 24, 2026—my birthday—because I wanted the day I entered the world to also mark the day I stopped hiding in it.

The book is a memoir, but it's not about healing. It's about what happens when you stop performing the version of yourself that keeps everyone comfortable.

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The Weak Link in Your Bloodline: Why Women Inherit Silence- PART I

Bloodline is the oldest contract a woman inherits without signature. It arrives before memory, carried in gestures your grandmother made while cooking, in the silence your mother perfected around certain questions, in the way women in your family learned to make themselves small enough to survive.

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The woman who gives until she resents

Every yes you don't want to give drains you. Every free consultation, every discounted rate, every extra hour you throw in because charging your full price feels violent.

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